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I’m not gonna write you a love song

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this is one of my favorite things – aiden “reading”. He love books. I love that he loves book.

i got ben mario cart for the wii for father’s day. it is awesome. i am addicted. i played it for 2 hours yesterday afternoon and did something strange to my eyes. It freaked me out, but once it was better, I was back to racing around that track.

aiden is going through a growth spurt. he eats and eats and eats. he is napping well. and the gymboree chick comments that he looks bigger than last week.

it hurt if he get his finger in your mouth. his teeth are sharp!

he alllllllmost crawling. He can certainly get himself around the living room no problem.

i have not done the switch to wordpress b/c i am being unreasonably picky about the site look. there are a million choices and I can’t find one like this one. I can’t use the same code with same WP changes b/c WP is way cooler and has wigets that update the stuff on the right without having to go into the code. that is awesome.

in closing…

so. jenny closed! with just a small amount little drama. we were at the title office for 2.5 hours, but it all worked out in the end. the realtor and broker ended up redeeming themselves. They never admitted they screwed up, but they worked really hard to make sure they closed today.

And they did. and it does make me want to use the realtor again, but i just know that i have to be real clear about making sure she communicates everything. and the broker was nice, and ended up driving out to downer grove to stand over the lender. that’s nice and all, but why did that not happen on wednesday? and so if i was to use him again, i would just sit on him harder. but since i’ll never move to another location in chicago, i doubt the opportunity will arise.

fool me once…

oooo…moveable type saw that i was cheating on it and decided to work! but i still think i am going to change to wordpress, if only because i’ve already started the process.

but i am loyal. I think, well, MT works enough. Why do I feel a need to stick with MT?

Because I am loyal. I like to think the best of things….and people.

but sometimes, things (and people) are just not doing their job!

life lesson: do not trust real estate agent and mortgage brokers. they do not have your best interests at heart. they only have theirs.

This life lesson is brought to you by the letter J, well, okay, my sister’s friend jenny. She got a big fancy chem eng job downtown. She decided that it made the most sense to buy a condo. She came up in March to do the shopping. Her first agent was a dud. We pointed her to a recommendation we had gotten from a coworker of some family. The new agent was great. Available on short notice, knowledgeable, helpful, proactive. We were quite proud of our recommendation.

Jenny found the condo she wanted. The offer, etc went well. Things were going smoothly to a may 22 closing date. Everyone had two months to get their shit together.

Usually these stories turn into how much the seller ends up sucking (especially b/c it was the builder). But not this one, the sell turned out to be awesome in the face of Jenny’s “people” sucking.

Despite the two months notice, and constant assurances to Jenny that everything was fine, the mortgage broker (strongly recommended by the realtor) had nothing ready as the date approached. At 2 pm the day before the 9 am closing, he finally returns Jenny’s phone calls to tell her he needs her offer letter and to tell her that she must pay PMI despite having assured her the whole time that she would not have to pay PMI (She’s bring 10%, and he told her he could do a 80/10 with the rest to avoid insurance).

It wasn’t the fact that the lender was requiring the insurance (it is understandable in this climate) that was annoying, but the last minuteness of it. It seemed that she was being taken advantage of.

When we gathered at the title office yesterday at 9 am, nothing was ready. The broker was not there nor was he returning Jenny’s attorney’s phone calls as we all sat there.

When your information comes from the seller’s attorney’s, something is wrong. The realtor kept defending the broker. The broker kept saying it will be noon…then three…then four for SURE.

The broker blamed it on the lender. I understand some things are out of his control, and that the jenny’s situation was unique. The communication about the issue has been very unprofessional. The broker would not return Jenny’s phone calls. The realtor did not advocate for her CLINET, instead spent the time defending the broker and making excuses. The whole situation would have been a lot better if the realtor/broker just said, yes, this was a screw up. sorry. and kept Jenny in the loop. She should not be having to call people to get information. People should be giving her information. Especially the realtor, who is going to make $12,000 off this transaction.

So closing is scheduled for noon today. Hopefully it will happen.

Needless to say, we will not be recommending this realtor again. It shows that lots of people can do the easy stuff well, but when things get tough, it really shows where their loyalties lie. I would hire the seller’s agent way before i ever would the realtor. At the beginning I thought an agent with many many years of experience was the way to go (knowledge), but this makes me question that thought b/c the realtor’s loyalties obviously lied with the broker and not her client. Oh and it is not just us that thinks this…

sketch. so be careful out there.

hopefully they will close today….

Bubbles for aiden, bubbles for everyone!

so i’m sick. and aiden is sick. i hope aiden doesn’t have what i have, but it hard to tell. we both have this wet cough. my lungs hurt when i cough and breath deeply. it is hard to tell if aiden has that too. he is acting happy and stuff. so i hope that razors in the throat only applies to me. but his sleep has been terrible lately, so i thinking that it might be bad. at least i can drink honey tea. there`is nothing i can give him. we have no fevers, so the only thing to do is wait this out. this is when i am glad that i don’t have a job. it is nice to know that we can lay around tomorrow.

happy mother’s day. it is weird that i am a MOTHER! I mean, i know that i am mother, but is still strange. i got myself flowers. ben got me this yummy plum/almond tart. trader joe’s has the best flowers.

but, you’re chasin’ the ghost of a good thing

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ben watches a lot of family guy.
seriously. a lot. and this is on top of baseball. a lot of baseball. though less now that i’ve complained.

not that it matters as i don’t really like to watch tv. though i do. cuz i am bored. though i just finished a good book. and bought a couple more off half.com for like $3 per book. i like buying used as it feel like it helps the environment. and i am cheap.

i planted plants yesterday. i am very excited. for the first time i have filled our planters. one has green peppers, red peppers, cucumber, and basil. i have another pot of mint. and the other planter has purple and red flowers. they are on our back balcony since it is southern exposure. it was nice to look at them while I worked out this morning. too bad it takes sooooooo long for the fruit to grow/mature. oh and i got a tomato plant for my upside down hanging bag tomato thing.